Boomer Bird's Empty Nest

This may even be the conception of Ne-deja-vu, at least, most appropriate. Although, the nest isn’t empty quite yet, it has been on the brink for some time. And certainly has crossed my mind only a dozen times or so a day! The ultimate re-purpose, renew and recycle project we can undertake, is that of our own lives.

Let’s talk major life events. If you ask anyone to name the milestones that have made a life’s journey, there will be trip down memory lane and a lot of laughter. Until you get to that bitter sweet event of your children’s departure from home. The fledglings taking flight, soaring off to make their own adventures and memories. Speaking from my own perspective, I find it horrifying, sad and exciting all at once. Horrifying as to the unknown dangers and heartbreaks they will suffer along their journey. Sad, simply in the absence of their voice and spirit that filled your space. As well as the excitement and anticipation you know they are feeling, striking out to design their destiny. In part a vicarious thrill and the foreboding of impending doom! Yes! Now I remember. That’s exactly what it felt like to take that defiant leap!

An empty nest isn’t the only reason to define a new personal purpose. If you haven’t redefined your purpose before, you’ll find it an absolute necessity at this juncture. The mid life crisis usually occurs sooner while the kids are still a little younger, and appears to be a preparation for the actual empty nest. The only thing middle age crazy really accomplishes, is to thoroughly embarrass your teenagers and humiliate yourself.

So, now here you are faced with that age old question, “So now what?” Not to worry, there is an answer. I’ll help explore the possibilities. And don’t feel sorry for yourself. You have not been left behind. You have been provided the same opportunity as those teenagers who couldn’t wait to take off. Off on an adventure, they have left you to yours. Let’s see what lies ahead together.

Empty Nesters, especially in the Baby Boomer generation is a phenomenon that cannot be summed up in one short post. So, I will talk about it from time to time as relevant subjects come to light.